Free heart check · 3 min · no sign-up
Spiritual Friendship
No account, no email — just 12 honest statements and a picture of what your heart might be carrying.
🥾 Start the spiritual friendship checkSound familiar?
- “No one really knows where I actually am with God this month.”
- “When I do speak truth, it comes out sharp — timed for my frustration, not their good.”
- “I can't remember praying for a friend's growth in Christ — only for their problems.”
What the Bible actually says
The friendships that change you are the ones headed somewhere. Spiritual friendship is two people walking the same path toward the same Lord — close enough to tell the truth, committed enough to stay, hopeful enough to see the person God is making of the other. Jonathan 'strengthened David's hand in God'; without that kind of friend, truth and love drift apart and we walk alone. In marriage this is the heart of the whole thing; outside marriage it is the family God gives everyone. Drawing on themes from Tim Keller's The Meaning of Marriage.
Anchor
1 Samuel 23:16 — 'Jonathan… strengthened his hand in God.'
Also: Proverbs 27:17 · Proverbs 27:5-6 · Hebrews 3:13 · Ephesians 4:15
Questions people ask
How long does the quiz take?
About 3 minutes — 12 short statements you rate from “Nope” to “So me.” You can skip any question.
Is it private?
Yes. Your answers stay on your device. Nothing is shared unless you choose to share it — for example with a pastor or mentor.
Is this therapy or counseling?
No. SoulXray is a self-reflection tool grounded in Scripture. It complements — never replaces — pastoral care or professional help. If you're in crisis, please reach out to someone you trust right away.